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*STOP FREE-RANCHING YOUR FAMILY & START PARENTING*
*#WakeUp Fathers WakeUp*
15th December 2020
I write this article with high voltage of constructive emotions from what l see taking place in some families. I have been exposed to almost 90% of places in Zimbabwe.
I completed the journey of moving around in all the ten provinces of Zimbabwe this year on the 13 of March 2020.
I have been to urban & rural & rural rural areas where l witnessed a mamoth task with married women who are neglected by men who just free-ranch their families.
The context in this article applies not only to those in Zimbabwe . You may find it applicable in Lesotho & Eqypt, DRC & Kenya, Togo, Mali, Tunisia, Malawi & Zambia and generally to the entire live persons.
This message is for the the men. Married men. I am not yet allowed by mind to use the word *father* in this introductory stage.
After going through this, every wife shall define her man in the house as father or just a *hanger* that supports a trousers on display.
It pains me to see men who are not responsible for their familes. They just know how to pregnant only & the rest is left to ladies to take care of.
These men site reasons like things are tight *babe*(zvinhu zvakaoma), but if you ambush them at a local bar or pub, you see then holding very expensive beers & wines whilst the family is in pauperism.This is not pleasure, but carbonated stupidity.
These men wake up at 9am just to look for food from what the kids have left after leaving the house for school or just to play outside.
These kind of a men does not learn from other fathers who wake up @3am to run around & come back @10pm.
The biggest business activity they do is betting on expired dogs & horses. They waste time clapping hands for other men making men.
They can wake up & start to debate who is richer than the other: Philllip Chiyangwa & Ginimbi, Twabam & Chivhayo. These are specimen men.
Come evening, they demand all as if they have been productive during the day. It only for those who are productive.
These kind of men treat their kids as parcels. Some times they are sent to rural areas to stay with *amwene*. It is good, but do you think they are going to eat Mountains or wells there? Do not delegate your problems to other people.
There is no holiday for 5 years. Kids are going to schools where only 4 teachers teach from ECD to Grade seven, no chairs, no black board.
They sit on stones. No live father should afford to free-ranch his family like this.
*Vamwene* is now in her 80s, but she continues to take care of little kids as if the parents are longer alive. This is bad!!
*Manzwa here vana baba?*
Vamwene is now in mega-carats of stress because the father (his son) is failing to buy even Pampas for the kids, some kids do not go to school,if they are, they can't remember the last time this father paid school fees.
This man pray for his kids to be enrolled in *BEAM*. This man is a not father. I wish his children could call him our Male.
This man is failing to parent his kids. He is doing free-ranching.
Kids hardly remember a single moment when they had a talk with the man in the house.
This man wait for the wife to buy food & grocery for the kids in rural areas. (Free- free-ranching)
This man is just a specimen father. He needs help with immediate effect, otherwise societies will fast degenerate into cemeteries with live men who are dead such that when they shall be publicly declared dead, it will be their memorial service. Tell them to join *Real Men's Forum* today(+263 776566771) monthly subscriptions.
They went to Nyaradzo or Doves to buy a coffin & organised for their self-funeral alone & buried themselves .
*WakeUpFathers*
Do not free ranch your kids. Be responsible. Graduate into a father.
*Ratidzo Kufahakurambwi*
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